A Safe Place to Heal

I had never been so scared. After spending years in a relationship that destroyed my self-esteem and independence, I knew it was time to leave. I couldn’t stay and have my children watch their mother remain powerless. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but I made the call.  

That call was to YWCA Niagara Region. As soon as they could, the YW provided me with an affordable place to live for myself and my children, a safe haven to call home. I had always worked retail in a greenhouse, I loved it, but being able to find something for me and my children, on my budget, was impossible. The YW took care of that. I didn’t have to worry about how to make ends meet and so I could focus on how to rebuild and be the mother my children deserved.  

Through the guidance of my social worker, I slowly began building me again. My time spent in the counselling program helped me to start putting my efforts towards my own growth. To see myself through a loving lens for the first time in a very long time. My children got to see their Mom, who she really is, for the first time ever. I finally felt like me. Like I could do this on my own.  

After 4 years with YWCA, I now feel ready to stand on my own two feet again. I’ve regained my independence, rediscovered my self-worth, learned how to budget, been present for my children, I even landed a job promotion! The YWCA helped us to transition into an affordable home in our community here in West Niagara. One that we can officially call our own. I’m a little nervous to leave but I’m so excited for our next chapter!   

The YWCA Transitional Housing Program changed my life forever. I wouldn’t be who I am today without it. My children wouldn’t have a strong, happy, independent mom. I would still be lost. Life would still be dark. Thank you for taking part in Coldest Night of the Year. There are so many stories like mine. So many people that need a hand to pull them out of the darkness. Thank you for being that hand. You’ll never truly know the impact you make by simply taking a walk with the YW.